How do I tell my marie barone of a grandmother that.....?

If jobs are tough, why would you pass up the opportunity to get one, even if it is something you don't want to make a career out of? I mean, it could prove to be a means to an end if nothing else. Something to earn some money while you are waiting for the job/career you actually want to open up. You don't need medical classes to be a coder/biller at all. If you are unemployed, how are you living now? Who is paying your bills? Buying your food? Paying your rent? If it is your grandmother or either of your uncles, I don't see how you could tell them no without risking the gravy train you are riding on...I guess in the end however, if you just don't want the job you tell them...NO. Grow a pair and a spine and just tell them No. It's hard the first few times, but once you do, you will feel the weight of the world lift off your shoulders.